People frequently tell me about what happens in their bedroom, not just in the context of my therapy office, but on the street. Just as often, people tell me what's not happening. Time and time again, I hear about unintentional celibacy—from the married couple in a rut to the young dater who, frustrated by disappointing experiences, has chosen to step away from intimacy altogether…for now. The absence of physical connection can be anxiety-inducing. I am often asked, "How do I fix this?" In the f